Showing posts with label Writer's Block. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writer's Block. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

What's in a Word? Sources of Writing Inspiration

On this Miscellany Tuesday, let me introduce guest blogger Laura Trutna, who writes about how sometimes a given word will get the mind moving and working to reshape nonsense into something eloquent.


Welcome Laura.

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What's In a Word?  Sources of Writing Inspiration

I am a writer. Not the kind with a capital “W.” I haven't been published, nor will I be in the forseeable future. But I consider myself a writer because writing is something I can't imagine myself not doing. I find it enriching and consider it a productive, even necessary, way to spend free time.

Of course, it also brings me the frustration of getting stuck, often firmly, in a rut. Inevitably this begs the question, can I escape?

By hannahkarina
My favorite writing professor in college was also my adviser. The first class I took with him my freshman year was one designed to teach strong writing skills using nontraditional means.

What that meant was choosing strange and sometimes Dr. Seussian topics and making them coherent.  He believed that if we could be eloquent about crap then we could write about anything.

One of his first exercises involved choosing three students at random and asking them to choose a word. In the end, our first topic was “Bobsled Spatula Karate,” and I turned in a story about a world-renowned perfumer who moonlighted as an international spy.

Now when I get stuck doing any piece of writing, I turn to the nearest person and ask him or her to choose a word. The result isn't always a masterpiece, but it gets my mind moving and working to reshape nonsense into something eloquent. Sometimes a given word will provide an insight into a character or situation, and all I had to do was ask.

By filtran
Writing in solitude has never appealed to me. Squirreling myself away in an office or on a quiet park bench sounds dull, and I'm sure would result in me chasing my own tail until I ended up chastising myself for not being bigger, better, faster, stronger.

I love crowded places. I live in the same town where I went to college, so sometimes I'll sit in the basement of the student center or in a coffee shop near campus and watch people.

A favorite activity is to record conversations. Laymen may be inclined to call this “evesdropping” but I prefer to call it a “process”. I write down the snippets of dialogue around me, no context. Later, on rereading, they can be funny or confusing or dark. Which is hard to say. But context and character are in the eye of the beholder.

I've found that doing something fun, spontaneous, and physically engaging, can relax me enough to get out of my own way.

I once visited a nearby farming town for the sole purpose of checking out the old local saloon. The only inhabitants were the proprieter and one of his off-duty bartenders. I learned more in two hours than in six years of living in the area.

By Jodene
I learned that the town's speed limit is low because the farmers don't want drivers to kill their bees; that their seemingly humble operation is the largest producer of alfalfa worldwide; and that the bartender, Krista, likes to spend hot summer days with her farm-boy friends sitting under the shade tree with a cooler of beer, taunting her ex-husband as he drives the wheat thresher.

This activity created a portrait of life that was fascinating and useful.

Whatever you choose doesn't have to be a trip to a new place, but perhaps cooking a meal or sketching or exercising. Busy hands, free mind.

When all else fails, I turn to my own memories.

When I was younger, maybe 16, I went on a trip with my parents to Odessa, Texas to visit my mother's grandmother, Mimi. She was 90 and scared the hell out of me.

She grabbed my forearm as I went to the fridge for a soda, and pulled me down the hall. Inside the spare bedroom, there was a cheap, laminate wood dresser with one of those old oxidized mirrors. I'd never believed Mimi to be at all senile, but as she led me to this dresser and opened one of the drawers, I wasn't entirely sure.

Mumbling to herself, she pulled things out, mundane items like unopened panty-hose and lotion and cheap wrist watches. Each one had a tag that listed its price, the year it was purchased, and the location: silver chain, $9.99 at Belles, 1994.

I never knew what to think of it, and she never told me I had to. Was it important? I don't know. My memories, my great-grandmother's shared ones, they're an example, something to be pulled out of a dusty drawer on a quiet day and examined. And hopefully, from this organic matter, will grow something worth reading.

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Thank you Laura!


(Photo credit: United Colors, by kaneda 99)

Friday, November 19, 2010

Secrets Cause Writer's Block/Create a Memoir #3

Dorothy Ann Skarles is back with another lesson on how to create a memoir.

Lesson 3  Warning! Secrets will cause writer's block.

The telling of a secret may make you feel guilty, but it is the knowledge of family discovering what has been concealed over the years that will stop you from writing your life story.

Three women I know lost courage to write their memoir from the constant fear of what their family would think. A nurse in World War II who was captured by the Japanese and couldn’t bear to tell her experiences. A women who was abused by a family member.  Another, married to a man in the Mafia who cut his picture out of their wedding photo.

People keep secrets for various reasons. They may be afraid of a partner's hostility and possible rejection. They know it is often in the best interest to keep some secrets private. The pressure for truth to be revealed is often responded to poorly. And in the “telling” it does not help to feel rejected, scorned, or stigmatized only because you were trying to work through a serious issue.

There are even times when a secret is spread around like a newspaper, making people think about it more frequently and giving it more importance than it deserves. Then as stress increases and gives you a lot of anxiety, it prevents you from dealing with the problem.

By WarzauWynn
But take heart. To reveal a secret is often helpful. Research shows that the simple task of writing it down makes a person feel better. Seeing the words on paper takes out the sting and lets you make a rational decision on whether you should or shouldn’t tell.

There is another surprising fact to take into consideration. Those agonizing, unresolved problems rooted in the past that dominated your life were known all along to family members. By writing it down, it releases you of your burden. It doesn’t hurt so much or seem so bad or embarrassing.

Time truly does heal a lot of things.

So take the bull by the horns and write that secret down. Get rid of that writer’s block and wondering if you should tell or not tell. “My hateful divorce. Three abortions at eighteen. Giving away my daughter. Why I was in jail. My gamble addiction. Marrying two wives two weeks apart. Borrowing money from Uncle Joe and never paying it back.

After you have finished all the whys and wherefores, date it and hide it away.


By jay
After a few months, read what you have written. Ask yourself:  “If I leave out specific details would my story lack continuity or meaning? Would my life show I dropped into a void where my mind could not heal? Should I risk bad feelings among family members? Should I tell how I really really feel?”

Be honest with yourself and decide. 

Should I or shouldn’t I?

Keep in mind, the road to forgiveness is the pathway to healing, and just as important, if not more so, is our self-forgiveness to heal our own souls. 
On a cautionary note, I'll leave you with a quote from Syrus: “I regret often that I have spoken; never that I have been silent.”

You are in control. The decision is yours alone.

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Dorothy taught memoir writing at Lodi Adult School until her retirement. She is the author of two novels and one non-fiction book—Learning To Write The Easy Way published by Twilight Times Books.

Trying to decide if the writing life is for you? Then start with a very important book Learning to Write the Easy Way for Fun, Posterity, Money by Dorothy Ann Skarles.

Discover your hidden writing talent. Discover your past and present for future generations. Discover the book in you.

Whether you write it as it happened or turn it into a fictional novel, your fond memories and personal experiences can be a book that captures both the past and the present--even if you've never written before.  Dorothy Ann shows how to put your life and times in easy writing steps that combine specific fiction techniques with non-fiction.

It's your life story, and your turn to tell it.

Also available at Twilight Times Books:
(Photo image by Mercedes)